What a wonderful post. I had read Pilgrims Progress years ago and it changed my way of thinking. I became a ware that when I had some knowledge I should share it with family and friends. Now that I was an expert on the subject people should follow my advice. When I read the book Pilgrims Progress it became clear to me that interfering with others progress was not my job. Everyone has to experience growth in their own lives as is comfort for them . This knowledge freed me of a burden that never was mind.